新西兰的小镇男子葛拉罕企图成为能够吸引男性的美丽女子艾希莉,但他在改变外表的过程中感受到内心的冲突和困惑,导致他希望重返「正常」的念头。本片深入呈现及探讨人物自我认同的历程,详实记载人物一路走来的心声。The intimate story of a self-proclaimed 'fat hairy woman with a penis' and her 5-year search to find love and acceptance. Growing up as a small town boy who seems more like a girl, Graham is an outsider. He can see only one solution - to change his gender. Graham decides to become Ashleigh. She insists she is heterosexual and a virgin. But just as Ashleigh starts to really change her appearance, she also reveals an inner conflict and confusion about what she's really doing. Ashleigh dreads being identified as transgender and wants desperately to be accepted as normal. Ultimately she hopes that becoming a woman will make her just that - normal.